Hoarding and seniors

Hoarding and Seniors: How to Help Them Declutter

Helping a parent declutter can be a difficult and emotional time, here are some small steps to help seniors let go of items held dearly

We inherit a lot from our parents, their traits, their looks and even their stuff – perhaps too much of their stuff.

Clutter is a growing problem today among all populations, including seniors. To help your parents pare down, downsize, create more room in their home and/or make it safer to age in place, it is important to note the difference between hoarders and clutterers.

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Hoarders are obsessive about their stuff and will often need a trained professional specializing in obsessive compulsive disorder to let go.

Clutterers, the more common type, are more apt to let go with a little encouragement and support.

Letting go may remind seniors that they are closer to the end of their lives and many older people want to hold on. Decluttering does not always signal loss but can also mean making space for something, is a good way to ease anxiety.

Keeping in mind that items people don’t want to let go of represent history and legacy, you can try the following suggestions to get people to part with them:

  • Find out how much the heirlooms are worth

Consult a local antique dealer. For the money motivated, resale can be a great inducer to declutter the home. A common mistake is that just because something is old, people assume it is “Antique Road Show” quality, so be prepared for some disappointments.

  • Be satisfied with slow, steady progress

Rome was not decluttered in a day. Even though you are dealing with their things objectively, your parents may not be. For many, starting is the hardest step, so be prepared to put in the extra time.

  • Consider hiring an objective third party

You might be too close to help. A professional organiser or housekeeper might be more effective at navigating the emotional terrain.

  • Get family support

Letting family members take a remembrance or keepsake is a great way to preserve the legacy, especially if the elder family member can see something being valued and put to use.

  • Make a list

A good way to start is with a small step in letting go, such as making a list of whom they want to give their things to when the time comes.

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